When Sean and I were raising our kids we were in the midst of building careers, purchasing our fist and second home, creating friendships and participating in all of their activities. There were school projects, science fair, reports, soccer, basketball, football, softball, baseball, lacrosse and church activities. Some weekends the only time we saw one another was sitting int he pews at church.
We were in the thick of life and it was cruising.
Being a Gammy helping our kids with their littles I have the luxury of slowing down, sitting and just being with the boys. I don't have anywhere to rush off to. I'm not building my career or purchasing homes. I get to enjoy all the little moments.
If I had one piece of advice to give those in the midst of raising families and building careers it is to put away your phones and talk to your kids. All they really want is time with you. Play two-square or wall ball, go for a bike ride, have a tea party or build a fort.
It really doesn't matter what you do as long as it is together.
Together at home.
Together outside.
Together doing what they ask you to do with them. Even when the slide is a little short.
Together making special days extra special.
Reading books together, even when Pops is "asleep".
Making rainy days a dance in the rain under an umbrella.
Dancing in the rain.
Staying on the phone when your toddler grabs the phone and you get to see life at their level.
Together in chores, cooking and crafting.
Together running in the rain.
Together in "dinking" your food.
Its all about doing it together, no matter what it is. I surely don't want to miss a moment as these two Cuties explore the world around them.
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